
What I Love About Counseling: Witnessing Redemption
“You have never met a boring person. If you think you have, either you weren't listening or they were lying.” This is a quote from one of my former counseling professors, and I believe it is a profoundly true statement. God is the ultimate storyteller. He tells His story not only in the pages of Scripture, but also in our lives. And God doesn't tell boring stories. The themes of God's Big Story (and by that I mean the story of Scripture which tells us the true story of the wh

What I Love About Counseling: Motivation to Grow
Last week I talked about how I benefit from couples counseling right along with my clients as I'm reminded of important relationship principles, and as my appreciation for my own marriage grows. But this phenomenon is not limited to couples counseling. Being a counselor provides constant opportunity and motivation to pursue my own personal growth in several ways. First of all, as a counselor, dealing with my own issues is a prerequisite to being able to offer good care. This

What I Love About Counseling: Marriage Reminders
The other day, when I arrived home after a counseling session, I said to my wife Jessi, “Babe, you know what I love about counseling? Well, I love a lot of things about counseling, but the thing I was just thinking about is...” Before I could finish my sentence, the idea for a new blog series was born! Out of all the types of counseling, couples counseling is probably my favorite. And when it comes to couples counseling, I have a special love for working with engaged couples